Dogs and Kids: Cuteness Overload!

Your baby is crawling on the floor and starts splashing in the dog’s water bowl.  Your dog looks at the baby and then at you.  Everyone smiles and laughs.  Some may take videos and post to social media.  But, what’s really going on with your canine companion?  How does he feel?

     Most people look at this scenario and think “Oh how cute!”  The problem is that they are missing the dog’s cue’s.  A baby plays with a dog’s water bowl and the dog’s ears pin back, she hangs her head, and is looking to mom as if to say “Are you going to take care of this?” (clear signs of stress).

     Both children and dogs look to us as parents and expect us to handle things.  If situations like this continue the dog may take it upon himself to correct the child.  And how do dogs correct?  Through measured bites.  Something that isn’t going to cause damage to another dog, but as humans, and babies in particular, will cause injury as we are not as sturdy as them.

     As parents and pet parents we should be managing these situations.  We keep the baby and the dog separate and monitor any short interactions.  Dogs naturally expect other dogs to give their litter space and as humans we should teach the same.  Eventually, and gradually allowing for slow, controlled, and observed greetings.  

     Teaching our dogs to give children space, as a general rule of training, but also teaching our children how to approach and interact with our dog.  By employing this approach you’re making both your child and dog feel better.  They understand that mom and dad will handle things and all is well.

     As our children get older, we should be educating them on how to properly spend time with our dog.  As a trainer I’ve seen too many instances where a parent finds it funny that their child will go up to their dog, get in their face, pull on their ears, or be rough with them in general.  This could cause a dog to lash out.  Often people see the dog as being a problem or aggressive.  But, when you review the situation it may just be that the dog was responding like a canine would instinctually as there was no intervention by mom and/or dad.

      This isn’t to say that there aren’t instances when a dog will respond inappropriately and that’s a different story.  However, I believe as people we neglect to see things from our dog’s perspective and don’t consider how they communicate.